1) To many Christians the term “disciple” speaks of a believer who exhibits an acceptable level of observable Christian behavior.
Since one’s behavior is a product of one’s convictions, values, and worldview we believe being a “disciple” should more accurately be understood to reflect a believer’s disposition and relationship with the Lord. In this lesson we seek to focus on a disciple’s heart attitude, rather than just what a disciple “does.”
1 Samuel 16:7… Man does not see what the Lord sees, for man sees what is visible, but the Lord sees the heart.”
Godly Behavior is an Outcome of Godly Convictions.
2) The pivotal issue that a disciple has dealt with is that of Christ’s lordship over their life.
In other words, the believer has considered the claims of Christ, and has concluded that the best workable relationship is for the Lord to be in charge of his entire life. One of Christ’s claims is that of ownership (having authority over that which is owned).
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Don’t you know that your body is a sanctuary of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body.
1 Corinthians 7:23 You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of men.
God’s ownership of the Christian is a factual truth, which is not dependent on the believer’s acknowledgment of it. I do not bestow ownership, I can only acknowledge and act upon what He states to be already true. New believers will typically not be resistant to this truth, because they don’t have preconceived ideas of God’s expectations. In contrast, older believers tend to accept this truth intellectually, but be resistant to the implications. What are the implications of ownership? What rights or authority is generally understood to be conveyed by ownership? Doesn’t an owner have the right to do whatever he wants with his property?
He Owns Me (Whether I Believe It or Not). His Ownership is Not Dependent on My Acceptance.
It (being a disciple) involved personal allegiance to Him, expressed in following Him and giving Him an exclusive loyalty. In at least some cases it meant literal abandonment of home, business ties and possessions, but in every case readiness to put the claims of Jesus first, whatever the cost, was demanded. Such an attitude went well beyond the normal pupil-teacher relationship and gave the word ‘disciple’ a new sense. (The New Bible Dictionary)
Every Disciple is a Convert, But Not Every Convert is a Biblical Disciple.
3) A Biblical disciple has reconciled Christ’s command for His followers to accept a Master-servant relationship with Him.
Luke 14:25-33 Now great crowds were traveling with Him. So He turned and said to them: “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his own father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, and even his own life—he cannot be My disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple. … In the same way, therefore, every one of you who does not say good-bye to all his possessions cannot be My disciple.
NOTE ON LUKE 14:25-33 The stress here is on the priority of love (compare Matthew 10:37) “The person who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; the person who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.”One’s loyalty to Jesus must come before his loyalty to his family or even to life itself. Indeed, those who did follow Jesus against their families’ desires were probably thought of as hating their families.
(Walvoord, John F., and Zuck, Roy B., The Bible Knowledge Commentary, (Wheaton, Ill: Scripture Press Pub., Inc.)
Romans 6:19 … so now offer them as slaves to righteousness, which results in sanctification.
1 Corinthians 7:22 … he who is called as a free man is Christ’s slave.
1 Peter 2:16 As God’s slaves, live as free people, but don’t use your freedom as a way to conceal evil.
4) A disciple of Jesus is more than just a student, they are an apprentice.
Unfortunately, many in the Western Hemisphere have adopted the secular teacher-student method for growing believers. There are significant factors that would seem to favor this approach, such as busyness and perceived efficiency. However, what appears to be most efficient is not necessarily what is most effective.
The teacher-disciple model demands a greater commitment and much more personal attention, but we believe it is the Biblical method modeled by Jesus Himself, and the model that will result in the greatest individual spiritual growth and impact on the world.
A Student – Typically the goal of a student is to learn knowledge (information), that is, to learn what the teacher knows. The student may not even respect or like his teacher.
A Disciple – A disciple on the other hand is a student who has the goal of becoming like his teacher. This model requires personal interaction, and a personal commitment by the teacher (mentor, spiritual parent) on behalf of the apprentice learner.
A Student Wants To Know What the Teacher Knows, A Disciple Wants To Become Like the Teacher.
Luke 6:40 (Jesus said) A disciple (apprentice learner) is not above his teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like his teacher.”
Matthew 10:24-25 (Jesus said) A disciple is not above his teacher, or a slave above his master. It is enough for a disciple to become like his teacher and a slave like his master.…”
All Disciples are Students, But Not All Students are Disciples.
5) A disciple has a desire to know God, not just know “about” Him.
Jeremiah 9:23-24 This is what the LORD says: … But the one who boasts should boast in this, that he understands and knows Me—that I am Yahweh, showing faithful love, justice, and righteousness on the earth, for I delight in these things. This is the LORD’s declaration.
Luke 10:38-42 … He (Jesus) entered a village, and a woman named Martha welcomed Him into her home. She had a sister named Mary, who also sat at the Lord’s feet and was listening to what He said. But Martha was distracted by her many tasks, and she came up and asked, “Lord, don’t You care that my sister has left me to serve alone? So tell her to give me a hand.” The Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.”
John 17:3 This is eternal life: that they may know You, the only true God, and the One You have sent—Jesus Christ.
Romans 12:2 Do not be conformed to this age, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God.
6) A disciple has the attitude of one who follows the Lord, not one who “leads” the Lord.
Luke 5:10-11 … “Don’t be afraid,” Jesus told Simon. “From now on you will be catching people!” Then they brought the boats to land, left everything, and followed Him.
Luke 9:23-24 Then He said to them all, “If anyone wants to come with Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life because of Me will save it.”
John 12:24-26 “I assure you: Unless a grain of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains by itself. But if it dies, it produces a large crop. The one who loves his life will lose it, and the one who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me. Where I am, there My servant also will be. If anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him.”
7) What has been described in the previous points should not imply that a disciple of Jesus is super spiritual or beyond the capacity to sin. Although the disciple’s acceptance of Christ’s yoke gives the Holy Spirit the freedom to mold them, they still have the capacity to disobey, and can submit to the sinful human nature for varying lengths of time.
The fact that the disciple has made the choice to acknowledge the lordship of Christ over their life has set the general direction of their Christian life. The everyday application of assimilated convictions will depend on the disciple’s continual willingness to yield up areas of their life to His authority. The battle has been won, but there are many skirmishes.
Because being a disciple has more to do with one’s disposition than with behavior, even a wholehearted disciple can find themselves in a quagmire of defeat if they do not understand how to consistently abide in fellowship with the Lord.
One of the responsibilities of Church leadership is to convey to the congregation that each believer should aspire to be used by the Holy Spirit as a “witness,”and also as a “discipler” (spiritual parent or mentor)
One characteristic that is typically evident in the life ofa disciple of Jesus is a discernible “passion for the Lord”
"… He (God) raised up David as their king and testified about him:
Acts 13:22 I have found David the son of Jesse, a man loyal to Me, who will carry out all My will.’